How do you expect a guy to cold approach you?

Just curious. I don't consider myself ugly, I work out a good bit and seem like I get really good initial responses from women. But then I absolutely flounder with what to say after I open up with "Hey, how's it going?" or "Hey, takin it easy?". XD

Saw this community and figured it couldn't hurt to make a post asking.

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delilahblack

23h

Honestly, I think it depends on the age and maturity of the woman just in my opinion. You're more likely to get shit from younger gals whereas middle to older women take being hit on as a compliment and their straightforward with their interest

wildcow_1125 17h

Intelligent/observational humor always gets me. But it can be hard to be witty on the spot, especially when you're nervous, so my biggest advice is think of something personal, or something related to what is happening around you at the moment. Woman (well I can only speak for myself) start out assuming what you're saying to us, you've used on other women. But even something personal, I would suggest making sure it's uniquely personal, like instead of saying, "I like your shoes" or whatever say something like "I noticed your shoes have xyz, it reminds me of my sister-in-law, she always xyz" (lol, clearly I know nothing about shoes, but you get the point). Or speak to something happening around you guys, especially if it's funny. But, long story long, saying something that she knows right away you could only have said to her will start you off on a good foot (ha!). Women just want to feel special. 😉

JingJunMa

The shoes part killed me 😂😂

delilahblack

23h

If it were me and I were a guy, id just cut straight to the point, "Hey how are you? I think youre very beautiful, would you be down to possibly exchange numbers?"