How did you meet your SO?

I'm tired of Hinge and all the other dating apps. Between all the assholes and creeps, and the lame small talks I'm finally going to delete all my apps.

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It was not through an app. They didn't exist back then, fortunately. Just two random strangers. For her it was love at first sight, for me she was a no-go as she was in a relationship (a bad one, but still). Eight years later she reached out to me again to tell me she got divorced. That's when it all started.

Did you two remain friends for all 8 years?

We were acquaintances, exchanging Christmas cards. Or Easter greetings and birthday wishes by mail. Or "Happy holidays".

Awee man, I met my partner on Tinder. 7 years, going strong, engaged, own a house, raise a kid together. Life is good! I had to weed through a lot of losers though. Sometimes you get lucky!

Kheldar 2w • edited

My past relationships came from an association where I play tabletop Rpg (several relations from few month to 2 years) , or from small community on discord (almost 4 years).
I don't use dating site, I met people in groups activity/discussions and feelings and proximity naturally grow.

I did know people meet on discord! A gaming one or is it one specifically for dating?

Kheldar 2w • edited

I was not a meeting one but it was common on it. It was more to discuss and share than to meet.

Menkyo 2w • edited

Not me but two friends got together and got married after they met doing martial arts together. A couple others met as volunteers. I met my wife in the drive through at Arby's. The problem with the dating apps is if you don't live in a very large city it can be hard to have a good pool of people and sometimes I think people's expectations are just too high on those things of themselves and of those potential mates available.

Ooh do tell! How did you meet at the drive thru?

Menkyo 2w • edited

Not much to tell. I was in the drive thru, she was taking my order. I thought gosh she sounded cute/pretty, if I pull up and she is Im shooting my shot. Pulled up to a gorgeous brunette smiling at me and being cute and flirty, almost lost my nerve because I usually struck out but said fuck it, yolo ya know? Said "you should include your number with my receipt" and she said "it's already on it with a wink". Waited a few days to call her and took out for a simple cliche date of food and a movie and we started hanging out and before I knew it she moved in, we got engaged and married then the kid came along a year later and here we are.

Wow you two must be very good looking LOL

She is I'm far from it 😂.

I was drinking a beer at a party. I told her she needed to catch up. So I helped her.

Beer?! I thought you were Mr Worldwide

It was at a party in the Azores

College thankfully because I have made 0 new friends since

Not sure if it's college or just how everyone is on the interwebs now

Marquee. We were on our third "date" before I remembered her name. Which is awful because her name is basically my name. … Next month, we'll have been together for a decade.

Congrats! Marquee in New York?

Yes.

I didn't 😵‍💫 as someone who never used any dating apps, I have to unfortunately say that meeting someone off them is just as difficult 😓 I'm sure it'll happen one day though

sarahchen OP 2w • edited

Meeting anyone new is just hard now

Met the love of my life in my friend's discord group where we hung out and watched movies together. I owe my friend a big one