How to Read the room without Over-Exerting?
I feel women difficult understand feelings of women. They don't seek help directly. they seek help or need indirectly through cues for other (either men or women) as a guy. I need to know how to respond to her (ik that it not just pushing the conversation to her side to make her feel better). What I wish to know is. I want to be genuine yet responsible for the women I love or care. And feedback or experiences and suggestions appreciated for expanding my horizons.
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So I guess so, what exactly is your question that you want to know the answer to? I read your post but I'm still not clear on what it is that you're wanting an answer for directly. I'm just asking so I can give you the best feedback that I can. One thing I wouldn't do is assume that all women are most women are self-reliant. Because when you make assumptions whatever the Assumption May be, you're making that assumption about an entire group of people there for making it more difficult for yourself. What I mean by that is, if you assume that most in all women are self-reliant then you assume that they already know how to take care of their own things so you're never going to help them. In your mind you've concluded that they don't need any help when that's not really true. I would say just start offering and asking if they need help with anything. You can always offer and say things like if you ever need anything let me know genuinely I'm here to help . Or something like that. I hope this helps some
opinion is just a opinion it Doesn't Changes how reality works but yeah making a broad assumption is wrong. but as for your feedback, even If we use "I'm here for you" or " you can rely on me" doesn't light up the scenario even after shown the consistency. maybe I'm feeling this because most of the women I met have someone to talk to (either friend or family). what I want to ask is how can I enter her personal space without damaging anything. I hope you understand.
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